How Does Adultery Impact Alimony in South Carolina


A spouse who commits adultery in South Carolina is not eligible to receive alimony. The only exception is if the faithful spouse condoned the adultery, meaning that they knew about the affair and allowed it to continue.

Compared to many other states, South Carolina is very strict about preventing an unfaithful spouse from receiving alimony. A spouse who otherwise needs financial support can be barred from alimony if there is clear and convincing proof of the infidelity.

Also unlike many other states, in South Carolina, spouses that live separately while their divorce is pending cannot have sexual intercourse with other people until the divorce or formal separation is final. Proof of sexual relations before a final divorce or separation will prevent the “unfaithful” spouse from receiving any future alimony.

For more information about adultery in South Carolina check out my blog post Elements of Adultery – South Carolina

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Elements of Adultery – South Carolina

What constitutes adultery under South Carolina law is open to debate. State law says that the two people involved in the adulterous act must engage in carnal intercourse, but state courts have interpreted this to mean sleeping together or frequent meetings that are intimate in nature. The South Carolina Court of Appeals has ruled that intercourse is not necessary and sexual intimacy is enough, in some cases. Homosexual acts can also be the basis for a claim of adultery. South Carolina family courts use a two-pronged test to rule on allegations of adultery. You must show that your spouse was inclined to be unfaithful and that he/she had the opportunity to do so.



The first element you must prove to establish adultery in a divorce case is inclination, or motive. You must prove that your spouse was inclined to have sex with his/her adulterous partner by providing evidence of sexual desire between them. In some cases, explicated love letters, emails, texts or Internet post can provided all the evidence you need. Telephone records and credit card statements also might provide proof. Eyewitness accounts of your spouse and their lover kissing or holding hands usually will satisfy the first part of the test.


The second element in the two-pronged test is opportunity. To provide evidence that your spouse had the opportunity to commit adultery, you must show that they were alone with their lover in a private place for a sufficient period of time to consummate their affair. If you can prove your spouse spent time with their adulterous partner alone at a friend’s house, for example, you probably have shown opportunity. However, the court will not accept vague accusations of opportunity; the proof must be “sufficiently definite to establish the place and time.” In other words, you need to be able to prove that they were alone for a definite amount of time on a certain date. If a private investigator sees your spouse park their car at their adulterous partner’s house at 9 a.m. and the car remains parked there until 3 p.m., you usually have proof of opportunity.


Because adultery is a private act by its very nature, South Carolina courts allow circumstantial evidence to prove adultery. You do not have to provide eyewitness testimony to the sexual encounter. Many times friends will provide written statements or testify in court about the details of your spouse’s affair. Photographs and records of explicit communications between your spouse and their adulteress partner can also be presented to the judge.

Most attorneys will advise clients not to follow their spouses themselves.  Any type of amateur surveillance could lead to trouble because of South Carolina privacy laws. In some cases, you might consider hiring a licensed and bonded private investigator to help you prove adultery.

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